Alienate Versus Associate

Alienate means cause (someone) to feel isolated or estranged. Associate means allow oneself to be connected with or seen to be supportive of. The etymology is latin meaning sharing or allied. After a conversation earlier today, I’ve learned I need to distinguish between those two words. Some in my circle, once friends and even associates, will be removed but not alienated. It’s become clear I can not fulfill my purpose with those whom I am currently associate.

My span, my influence, and my circle has to widen. I have to identify then engage those with whose paradigms and purpose are more closely aligned with mine. I have to place myself in a position where fulfillment of my purpose will not only assist others but also foster others with greater reach and influence to assist in my endeavor.

Today, Saturday, May 18, 2019, I am grateful that:

I was granted insight on the differences between alienate and associate. I tend to have a “black and white” perspective. I have a history of thinking in absolutes. Clarifying definitions help me move correctly, with proper intent and purpose.

I’m learning who can assist in my purpose and those unwilling. Either by deed or word intentions are made clear.

I’m willing to remove those unwilling to assist in my purpose fulfillment thereby making room for those willing and able to assist.

Identify Those Who Can No Longer Assist. Be Impactful!