Authenticity

Today’s been interesting for a couple of reasons. First, I’m operating with minimal sleep. A couple of nights ago my regular routine was interrupted and I haven’t been able to return to my normal. Second, I got a chance to hang with Mo and Dennis as they fed some of the homeless here in Cebu. Mo has transportation so his movements aren’t as limited as mine. Next, Dale and I had an enlightening conversation and it’s been refreshing watching him embrace change and growth.

What I strive for is authenticity. The reason I work towards that end is quite simple, I don’t have the energy to manage multiple facades any longer. I don’t want to put on a different persona for each encounter. I’m totally comfortable with who I am and what I represent. If others are not, that’s more their problem than mine and not at all my concern.

As I’ve come into my own, I’ve spent less time thinking about what others think of me and more time focused on what He thinks of me and my ability to fulfill the reason He put me here. There’s a great sense of relief and pressure.

Today, Monday, May 4, 2020, I am grateful that:

I had the chance to see Mo do his thing. It’s great that after a couple of weeks of offering assistance, he hasn’t grown weary and decided to stop. We spoke of some of his frustrations but all in all, he’s become quite comfortable rendering assistance.

Dale and I had a great conversation today. I don’t think I did as good of a job listening as I could have and I’ll work towards improving that in the future. It was good to hear him share some of his insights and I was able to share some of my experiences as well.

Wayne and I got a chance to chat via social media. I hadn’t spoken with or seen him in a couple of months and wasn’t even aware if he was still in Cebu. He is and he’s doing well and that was great to know.

I was able to acquire some melatonin. I’ve got to get back on my normal schedule, so I’m turning my phone off and getting some much needed rest after this is completed.

When speaking with friends, do you talk more than you listen? Like I did today or do you find you ask more information and ask for more details..

If you aren’t able to help others, are you able to help encourage those who can? Can you offer words of encouragement and support or maybe listen to the complaints of those rendering assistance?

Do you behave the same, no matter the company?

What makes you change your behavior?

Be Great. Be Grateful!!!