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Be Available

By Abe Newmeyer, October 30, 2019

Discipline & HabitsRelationships & Others

Albeit disturbing to admit, my comfort level here in Cebu is abnormally high. I’ve gotten into a routine in most facets of my being. From when and where I eat, my social circle and the days and times we interact, and work. I’ve laid a foundation and settled into a routine and developed a sense of normalcy.

Since Saturday/Sarah I’ve deviated from my routine. Being available for a fellow traveller has become essential. Solitarily traversing your path through unknown and unexplored areas of the globe is(I’m guessing) a frightfully exhilirating experience. For most will not know the joys of such travels, boldly exploring eateries and shopping venues, spontaneos and sporatic conversations which develop into steadfast friendships. Such has been my experience and I’ve been fortunate enough to have met other kindred spirits.

Although I’m most grateful for my routine and it’s, at most times, predictability, I’m happy to deviate and make myself available to a fellow traveller. To swiftly erect a friendship with adventure and faith integrated into its foundation is and will continue to be one of the many benefits of solo travel. As a result, the last several days with Sarah has fed a spot within me few will ever know exist.

Today, Wednesday, October 30, 2019, I am grateful that:

Leylam is open 24 hours per day. Around 2 a.m. we left the apartment and grabbed a late night snack. “Comfort food” in the middle of the night, in a foreign country while observing a vegan lifestyle(her not me) is a gift.

She was flexible with her itenarary and I was able to complete my work and relaxation routine for Tuesdays. Gratitude list, writing on the novel, then lunch, massage, a brief walk followed by a gathering with friends, a trip to Carbon for fresh fruits and vegetables(still juicing) then a trip home. Thoroughly enjoy my Tuesdays and Fridays, probably more than the remainder of the week.

Although brief, I did get a chance to see Cedric before his trek back stateside today. Truly a gift, his friendship and assistance helping me get settled in Cebu has been without equal.

Be Available. Be Impactful!

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