Friendships

In my debut novel, Glimpses of Grace You are His Favorite, I wrote, “People enter your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime.” That’s what a great friend has been telling me for years. I’d heard similar sayings but I accredit her with the quote.

Yesterday I had the opportunity to hang out and spend a bit of time with a Frank. He and I met several months ago while he was in Cebu and since he’s here again, we reconnected. He’s a bit older and offers the insight of experience, something I’ve cherished since my youth.

Before resting for the night, I checked my social media account and got a message from another contact I’d met here in Cebu. Much different from Frank, his message was defamatory and demeaning.

Some actions make decisions about investing time with them very clear and simple.

Today, Saturday, March 7, 2020, I am grateful that:

I had a chance to speak with a couple people and get feedback about my conversation with a potential investor. Wise counsel is something I value.

About a week ago, Diana and I had a conversation and she mentioned she’s not taking advice from “broke” people anymore. It’s so true and I’m happy she said what she did. It’s one thing to seek counsel but it must be from the right source. If I follow the advice of those without experience it’s a recipe for failure, not success.

Some around me make their intentions obvious; thereby making my choices simple. I don’t have time to invest in those whose intention and motives are impure and not oriented to make this earth a better place.

Which relationships/friendships can you invest more time in?

Which ones can you sever?

How will you invest your upcoming time?