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Grocery Shopping

By Abe Newmeyer, April 1, 2020

Decisions & ActionGratitude & Perspective

Thinking of my objectives for the day, it occurs I need to buy groceries. Typically a dreaded task but this time it’s more so. There’s no public transportation, no taxis, only walking. The stores are a couple of miles away and since it’s the beginning of summer, it’s warming up a bit. I’d postpone shopping until later in the day but with an 8 p.m. curfew and the stores closing at 6 p.m. delay is not an option.

The recent changes have permeated the simplest of daily activities. It’s a minor inconvenience, but inconvenient nonetheless.

Today, Wednesday, April 1, 2020, I am grateful that:

I was able to get a pass to go shopping. It was relatively painless, show them my ID, sign a form, and return the pass. In times past, I may have complained about the process, but today it’s not that important. I got what I needed by doing what was required. No more, no less.

I had money to buy groceries. I spent a bit more than I’d planned but I have food. It’s interesting how something that I’ve taken for granted for so long actually makes the list today. My thoughts are two fold: I’m happy I have the money as things have been lean for several months now and secondly, I’m happy I was willing to walk to the store, buy what I needed, and return home safely. In my 20s and 30s I would have simply ordered take out. I would not have cooked and I have wasted so much money. This road is less expensive, healthier, and well within my budgetary constraints.

I’m physically able to walk to the store. It’s about a 15-20 minute walk from my condo. I think about a few I know that live here and they aren’t able to make that commute. They are restricted to taxis, but there are none. I’ve offered to help with errands, if needed, and both have declined. I’ll remain willing to help but I won’t extend my hand again.

While shopping, a complete stranger offered a protective mask. I was using a towel to cover my face. I’d put a mask in my cart but hadn’t checked out yet. A random act of kindness from a complete stranger. He offered a disposable mask, didn’t demean or ridicule. I said “thanks” he said “you’re welcome” and we went our separate ways.

Did you help anyone other than yourself today?

Did you offer to help anyone else?

Were you able to offer a “random act of kindness” today?

Are you thankful for the small things you have today?

Be Great. Be Grateful!!!

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