Ilo Ilo

Made a quick excursion to Ilo Ilo from Bacolod. Similar to Sinulog in Cebu, Ilo Ilo has a festival Dinagyang. Unfortunately we didn’t do much as far as the festivities go. We spent the majority of the daylight hours Saturday travelling to check out of our hotel in Bacolod. Sunday we spent the majority of our time walking in the mall picking up souvenirs(pasalubong) and basically absorbing the atmosphere.

My temperance is getting less tolerant. I’ve grown tired of “being on display.” As one of the few Black Americans in the city, when Anthony and I travel together or walk around the mall, we both noticed a bunch of people gawking. After a couple of people it becomes more irritating than flattering. Anthony noticed and began laughing or playing around, me not so much. Most times I acknowledge the onlookers, sometimes I offer to take a pic. It’s interesting that in 2020 some people haven’t had frequent contact with those from different ethnicities and backgrounds.

Today, Monday, January 27, 2020, I am grateful that:

I’m getting back to my routine. It’s been similar to when I’d take my antidepressants, start feeling better, then stop taking my medication. This list and writing is the same way. I feel better when writing what I’m grateful for and after nearly a week of not writing consistently, I’m well aware of the benefits I receive from writing.

Ronnie was able to come over on Saturday. We spent the majority of Saturday, all day Sunday, and today(Monday) we’ll be together as well. I thoroughly enjoy time with her. We had a bit of an argument last night but small things are par for the course since we’re still learning about each other.

Anthony has done what he said he would. We’ve been hanging for nearly a week. I’m sure I’ve gotten on his nerves and vice versa but we’ve been going strong. Fun, fellowship, and great food have been the theme(even when not spoken). Happy to have time to hang with someone similar to my age. I don’t have anyone else in my circle able or willing to move in the same circles as I am, at the moment.

What habits make you better?

Do you still do them?

Do you share those habits with others to help them become better?

Be Great. Be Grateful!!!