More Culture Shock
Growing up in a culture and living in another, there are so many differences it’s challenging to explain at one time. What I learned today is something I’ve known and experienced more than once and was simply reminded of again. I’m a foreigner. I’m not from here. There are so many preconceived notions about myself, simply being from another country. It’s an obstacle I’ll never overcome.
I’ve witnessed other expats try to assimilate to the culture with utter failure. Some from feeble attempts and others for blissful ignorance. The truth of the matter is I am an outsider. As uncomfortable as it is to say in this day and age, it’s the same in America. Therefore, when I experience bias and prejudice, I’m able to recognize it with relative ease. This happened today and for me, it was blatant. So much so that I asked a local friend of mine and they explained I wasn’t misunderstanding the situation.
He explained my experiences today were typical behaviors of himself and his countrymen. I grew up navigating certain biases. It’s normal for a Black man in America. My lesson today was one I’d learned decades ago and I’m guessing it was time to remember a cold, hard truth. The African descendents, born in America, have no true homeland.
Today, Monday, December 12, 2022, I am grateful that:
Opportunities abound. I’m faced with so many chances to grow and excel, it’s challenging to choose which to pursue first. As I sort through my options, more appear. It’s truly a blessing.
My weekend was relaxing and restful. I’m at an age now that my serenity is paramount. I don’t like chaos. I strive for harmony and clarity. I received both this weekend.
Even though I had to walk home in the rain yesterday, I’m fortunate enough to have the ability to make the walk. There are those younger than I, unable to traverse my trek yesterday. I’ve made the walk several times before and it’s not my preference, but I’m able to do so without too much discomfort.
How do you deal with uncomfortable situations?
Be Great. Be Grateful!!!