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Not So Casual Connection

By Abe Newmeyer, April 19, 2020

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For the last few weeks I’ve been writing some ad hoc pieces for a couple of clients as a means for generating an immediate income. During an interview with a client yesterday she and I had an unusual connection. A turn of phrase by us during a conversation, a couple of follow up questions, and we both realized we had an abiding conviction in our Creator.

We both enthusiastically shared some of our experiences and a simple 10-15 minute conversation morphed into nearly an hour. I was happy to have had the conversation. Not just to talk about faith, purpose, passion, and leading a meaningful and fulfilling life but also to share those with a kindred spirit.

Had I not learned and applied an active listening technique from prior sales training, I may have missed out on a most fruitful and productive conversation.

Today, Sunday, April, 19, 2020, I am grateful that:

Others traverse a similar path as my own. The journey is the same even when our paths are quite different. It’s gratifying to know I’m not the only one. I’m not alone on the seemingly arduous and endless sojourn. There are others seeking kinship, encouragement, and adoration along the way.

I’ve been practicing active listening. It’s something I’ve used intermittently over the years but lately, the technique has proven quite valuable.

I had a day of solace. Mind numbing boredom, fatty foods, and binge watching of episodes I’ve previously seen but wanted to watch again. Finalization of my plans is for another day. Today was a day of nothingness.

I don’t feel guilty or remorseful for my activities today. I’ll accomplish all that’s required and some additional items all before their deadlines. I’m happy I’m able to set aside time, recharge my battery, and replenish my spirit.

How do you engage casual acquaintances?

How do you replenish your spirit?

What’s your guilty pleasure?

How often do you partake? Is that too often?

If it hasn’t impeded in your fulfillment of purpose, is there really a need for guilt?

Be Great. Be Grateful!!

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