Participation vs

Participate or Spectate

There’s an author who wrote, published, and sold over 40,000 copies of his books in a very short time. During a conversation someone pointed out to the author that his book contained typos and grammatical errors. The author replied along the lines of “Over a million dollars in sales, even with the errors you found.” Which would you prefer?

There are those among us that will gladly dissect your work, your efforts, and provide their unsolicited advice. They probably think they’re helping. I’ll go so far as to say they’re offering assistance in the spirit of service. Hoping that their feedback will help you improve, they miss the point.

The author wrote, published, and sold his book. The do-gooder didn’t. Insights for improvements are great since we can all improve. Years ago, my mentor said, “I was too busy driving to stop and get gas.”

Today, Thursday, April 16, 2020, I am grateful that:

Diana shared the author’s story with me last night. I found it profound. I get both sides of the story. From the perfectionist part of me that wants to deliver great works. I also see the “starving artist” point of view and would love to have a million in revenue. It’s a delicate balancing act.

Good, bad, or indifferent, I’m in the game. I’m on the playing field. I’m participating in the game of life. It’s more than scary. It’s undoubtedly the most challenging part of my journey thus far. Things are taking longer than planned and costing more than expected but now is no time to yield. I have to keep moving forward despite difficulties, distractions, and delays.

Storytelling is seemingly effortless. The ability to discern lessons within those stories are revealed as well and I’m able to convey some lessons that have an impact to readers and myself. It’s something that I’ve taken for granted for longer than I care to admit but as I grow as an author and a person, my ability to tell impactful stories should and will grow; thereby, my ability to help others seeking improvement.

Are you the author or the critic?

Do you quickly dismiss your critics? How?

Are you aware their words may have some benefit?

Do you criticize others?

Do you share your opinions or your experience?

Be Great. Be Grateful!!!