Still A Bit Selfish

Yesterday I hung out with a few friends and we split into mini groups to have lunch. One buddy, Ron, had a doctor’s appointment and was under time constraints. We went to grab something to eat but nothing seemed appealing to myself, so I left him and went somewhere else. His feelings were hurt.

We spoke about the incident this morning and I apologized for my behavior. He accepted. The point for bringing up the story is sometimes I still move in my best interest versus what’s good for others. I wanted to eat grilled salmon at another place and with Ron’s time constraints it would not have been plausible. So I moved in my best interest instead of his.

I need to be mindful of my behavior in all instances and in this particular one I’m still uncertain if I would have behaved differently. I’ve been moving towards a healthier lifestyle and as I’m learning new behaviors it’s challenging to know exactly what’s ok for food and what’s not. I typically eat at home as I know exactly what’s good here cause that’s all I’ll purchase. Anyway, eating out is still a challenge but I’ll get that resolved before too long.

Today, Monday, July 22, 2019, I am grateful that:

Ron and I still friends. I don’t typically “bail out” or change plans last minute and I’m relieved he understood my reasoning and accepted my apology.

I got to spend a bit of time with Rose yesterday and get to know her a bit better. It’s cool to be able to spend the evening with someone and work towards learning more about them.

I got to play pool last night. Rose and I at a small bite at Mr. A’s then played a bit of 8-ball. I haven’t played pool in years and it was cool to be able to play some. I realize I probably need glasses more than I previously thought but that’s another story.

Consider the Needs of Others. Be Impactful!