The Answer Is No

Probably the most challenging word for me to say in the English language. What I’m learning is, the more I say that little word, the more freedom I gain. I gain more time. I gain more insight into those things I find acceptable and those things I’m no longer okay with doing. Yep, there’s freedom in saying NO.

I’ve never been diplomatic. I can parse my words, but in business, I am typically straightforward and a bit blunt or brash. It’s worked well in some instances, and in others, not so well. I’d say being direct has provided more positive outcomes than negative, if not, I would have changed my approach. At this stage, I’m probably not going to make significant changes, since my prior consequences haven’t been dire or undesirable. If or when that happens, then I’ll adapt.

Today, Tuesday, June 20, 2023, I am grateful that:

Yesterday was a federal holiday. Not sure how many years that’s been the case and I’m not going to search the answer, but I’m old enough to remember when it wasn’t.

I’m making some progress on another project. Tomorrow is a big day for production and I’m hoping I’ve laid the groundwork well. We’ll see what happens.

I got to pickup some items at the farmer’s market and see a friend of mine. A couple of weeks ago, his father died unexpectedly from a heart attack. It was good to see him and his nephew away from the grieving setting and doing some normal tasks of the living.

How well do you say No?

Do you feel a similar freedom as myself?

Be Great. Be Grateful!!!