When It’s Tough
We’ve all certainly faced challenging times. I sure have. The thing to remember when it gets tough is the reason I’m doing what I’m doing in the first place. Some talk about purpose, some talk about your why, others talk about the pleasure of being uncomfortable. I don’t care what you need to do, just do something to keep going.
I think of eight words. An impactful question I’ve been asking myself consistently for several years now. It’s not something I share often. I don’t like giving away this powerful tool. Not out of selfishness, but rather, I’ve offered its use to others. They’ve fumbled around with it, looked and played with it, but haven’t wielded it. I consider they’re efforts like the old adage of a chimpanzee with a gun. It can be totally chaotic.
Some things may be too powerful. Some may not be able to process the information provided. I’ve been in that situation so many times. Speaking with experts in their fields is like standing under Niagara Falls. The unbridled amount of water will totally engulf you in mere seconds. In a matter of minutes you’ll find yourself out of your depths and struggling for survival.
Subject matter experts are essential. Leveraging the experience of others is an accelerator most don’t use. If it’s gotten tough, if it’s seemingly insurmountable, if you’ve reached a breaking point, have a conversation with someone who’s been down your path. I’d suggest recording the conversation and listening to it a few times. If you do, you may hear things the second or third time that you didn’t hear in your actual meeting.
Today, Monday, February 6, 2023, I am grateful that:
My weekend was relaxing. I was able to get some rest and recharge my battery. It’s challenging adjusting my schedule for two days, but that’s exactly what I’m doing. I’ll do my best to get my paid work done in four days. If I can get this done, then I have three days for business building.
I’m beginning the segregate my efforts. Multi tasking is a misnomer. It’s best for me to have focused energy on one thing at a time. Concentrated and sustained efforts over consistent periods of time will yield the best results. Bouncing from one thing to another, then back to the first is futile and undisciplined.
Clarity has returned. I’m lacking desire, but I’m pretty sure how I can regain that elusive component. I’m looking forward to what I can build in the coming weeks and months.
Who can you call upon with more experience?
What questions will you ask them?
What can you offer them in exchange for the expertise and time?
Be Great. Be Grateful!!!