Asking Those That Know

There’s an old adage, “Better to experience it once than read about it a thousand times.” I like to say, “Be leary of those offering their opinion and grateful of those sharing their experience.” Today I’m grateful to have so many people in my life, close friends and family, that have known me for decades. Individuals that go back to the times of my youth, and theirs too. Guys and girls who’ve grown and matured and watched me do the same.

Yesterday I had a chance to speak with Mike. He’s an incredible man and a great friend. We hadn’t spoken in about a month or so. I got a chance to talk to him about the variations I’ve been experiencing in my morning routine. He explained his routine, which hasn’t changed for years. Mine hadn’t either for years until recently. Mike went about detailing his ritual and the benefits he received. I explained I haven’t had that in so long it sounded unfamiliar.

We both agreed about the benefits of having and adhering to a morning routine. I’ve got to make a few changes. I will, but he point I was most interested in is Mike’s willingness to share his experience. Some don’t. Some will listen to you talk and have nothing experiential to share. They only have opinions because they haven’t walked along the same path. So as I grow, walking in His purpose, it’s great to have those in my circle that are a bit further down the path and willing to share what they’ve learned along their journey.

Today, Tuesday, March 7, 2023, I am grateful that:

Beverly and I got a chance to speak yesterday. It was longer and more in depth than usual. It was refreshing, enlightening, and insightful. She explained some things I hadn’t considered and I was able to reciprocate. It’s great to have the relationship we do and I consider our relationship vital at this stage of my development.

Mike was able to share his morning routine. We’ve covered this topic more than once over the years. His lessons haven’t really changed and it was good to hear that.

I was able to get my work week off to a good start. I took about two hours making and taking calls, but overall it was productive. I could have done more hours and been more productive, but as far as I can remember, it was one of, if not my most productive day thus far.

How often do you speak with the people you’ve known the longest?

Do they willingly share their experience?

Do you share yours?

Are you thoughtful and premeditive in your questions?

Be Great. Be Grateful!!!