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Denying Labels

By Abe Newmeyer, August 10, 2022

Progress & Getting BetterWork & Business

For years, possibly decades, I would identify myself by what I did for a living. I’d also hear this from friends and coworkers. “I’m a doctor” or “I’m a dentist” or “I sell cars” and on and on to infinity. When you’re fortunate enough, like me, to have performed well in multiple industries, this can be frustrating and confusing, for you and those around you. These identifiers or labels can be helpful and harmful.

Today, I fit in the category of business owner. My business produces and distributes audiobooks. That’s what my business does, but it’s not who I am. I would encourage you to identify yourself by who you are rather than by what you do for a living. I am His servant. I’m walking in conviction of His purpose for my life. There’s a significant difference between who I am and what I do to generate income.

Our brains function well when we’re able to categorize. Cars, houses, races, shoes, professions, and so many other things help our recollection ability. I’ve been mindful of the differences for several years and it’s great to have a clear understanding of what I do for a living versus who I am. I’ve repeated this a couple of times because of its significance.

Today, Wednesday, August 10, 2022, I am grateful that:

I had a chance to talk to Gary last night. He’s a champion and has been for more than 30 years. It was cool that his older brother Walter displayed similar traits to myself. He shared some of the lessons he’d learned from Walter and I found them useful and encouraging.

I’m not what I do for an income. A subtle and simple distinction, yet powerful.

I’m making progress. It’s slower than I’d like and not as impactful as I’d like, but it’s progress. I’m not entirely happy, but being happy is a feeling and it’ll change, as most feelings do with time.

How do you introduce yourself?

Are you aware of the distinction between what you do and who you are?

How has that distinction impacted you?

Be Great. Be Grateful!!!

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