Living Amends

Amend(to make minor changes in) is an interesting word and part of my mission for today. Sunday my desire for a different food for lunch led to me amending my plans for lunch and I basically abandoned a buddy. We rescheduled for today and I overslept and haven’t had a chance to complete my usual morning routine.

I’ve learned I have to be more flexible. I have to amend my behavior with regards to Ron. I made a mistake on Sunday and again today and I am changing my routine and going to lunch with Ron in about an hour.

Today, Tuesday, July 23, 2019, I am grateful that:

Ron was honest with his feelings. I did leave abruptly on Sunday and was about to cancel again today. Had he not been honest I would have thought nothing of his feelings and would have continued with my daily routine but changing my behavior and being a good friend is important to me and my routine can withstand slight changes.

Relationships, male or female, are important and play a significant role in my joy and fulfilment. Living in another country, isolated from anyone I’ve ever known is challenging. Developing new relationships and being accountable for my actions is also vital. It’s something today that I need to change and I will.

I have individuals in my life who are willing to hold me accountable for my actions. Whether it’s Beverly, Ron, Grady, Steve, or any number of those I consider friends, it’s important to continue to surround myself with those who are not only encouraging and uplifting but will also hold me accountable for my actions and call me out when I’m behaving in a matter that’s undesirable.

Amend Undesirable Behavior. Develop Impactful Relationships. Be Impactful!