Low Profile

Yesterday was a milestone for Veronica. She turned 30 and began another decade of life. My hope is this decade will be more impactful than the last. For her it didn’t seem like a big deal. It seemed to me like another day for her.

When I turned 30 it was kinda depressing. I thought my progress would have been much greater than it actually was. I’d attempted to make the day special for her. Mostly because I’ve turned a couple more decades than her. My most recent was in July so I feel the importance of the milestones.

Veronica’s attitude was more laid back. She chose a low profile approach. We stayed around the condo most of the day. She napped and rested. We went out for dinner and then dessert, but it was a low profile day and night. She was happy being together. She could have set high expectations, but she didn’t.

I’m not entirely sure what I could have done better or what I could have done to make her day more special. Growing up without celebrating birthdays, their importance has been diminished. So I’ll ask a few friends and see if there’s a chance for a do over.

Today, Friday, April 1, 2022, I am grateful that:

I get to participate in milestones. I get to be a part of people’s lives. Not idly sitting by but actually being a part of their journey.

Ian and I got a chance to eat lunch together today. We haven’t had lunch since I’ve been in Cebu City. It was great to hang out and fellowship for a bit.

Veronica and I got a chance to buy groceries today. It’s been challenging, as a couple, but things seem to be on the mend. I get to practice patience and tolerance and so does she.

Do you relish your milestones?

What about the milestones of others?

Are you more celebratory or low profile?

Be Great. Be Grateful!!!